Living through the Clouds and Storms – Part 1
Would you know someone in your circle of friends or family who are really…..I mean seriously really, at peace with themselves? As the clouds and storms gather…..these individuals are totally unshaken, because in the canvas of life that they see before them, there is hope and light at the end of it all. It may be that they lost their jobs, or money or property……..or maybe they have fallen sick or some other misfortune has befallen them. They always seem to be calm and collected …….and are patiently waiting for these storms to pass, because they somehow have the assurance of the sun showing up soon!
The above is a simple world view expressed sometimes as “positive thinking”. Have a postive attitude they say….or see the bright side of every situation…..or even ” Don’t worry, be happy…..etc” as the song goes. But even these individuals, are they really beyond the attack of the curve balls and swings that come their way in their daily life? Are they truly at peace with themselves? Is the outward appearance of a happy and positive self a deception or a mask that they wear? Does this mask come off when no one is looking? Hopefully the answer is no…..and hopefully these individuals are genuinely cheered up and they can spread that cheer around to others as well.
Now let us look at the christian perspective. Being baptised, and a regular church going individual…..does this guarantee happiness and peace? Unfortunately the answer is no. This so called Christian, would be testifying and maybe even to some extent be living out a christian life, as long as the going is good ……and the day to day life is progressing smoothly. But if life takes a turn for the worse, God is sure to be blamed. The goodness and kindness will fly out of the window and be replaced by anger and bitterness.
So who are these people who are geniuinely happy……at peace with themselves, with the rest of the world and with God? Do they really exist? Can we be like them? What is their secret?
Below ….and in the next few postings of this blog, we’ll try to dive deeper and see what makes this geniune peace and happiness possible.
The usual suspects:
Let’s see what the world carries as myths around the subject of happiness and peace.
Money: Can money buy happiness and peace and love? Many might answer yes, sure for a time there might be the illusion of great happiness and peace…….but soon this picture begins to fade and reality sets in. There are stories of individuals who had great windfalls come their way……through wining lotteries or through inheritances bestowed on them……yet after a brief time of euphoria, their life story still has “misery” as the central theme all over it in one form or the other. Genuine Peace and happiness still eludes them.
Drugs & Alcohol: Maybe we all know at least one person in our circle of friends and family…..who took refuge in drugs or alcohol as their way to happiness. Unfortunately this story may not have a happy ending or perhaps, the story does end with the individual coming to the realization with the help of family and friends, or maybe professional counselling etc……that they are on a path of self-destruction, and turns away from this addiction to get back on track to find the true meaning and purpose in their life.
Power and Position: How difficult it is to forgo the power to control & influence? Take and look at the recent world events around us and this is easily evident. Politicians, dictators and authorities…..who are so entrenched deeply into their postions of power, that it is almost beyond their ability to let go. Again, we have CEO’s and other celebrities who are fighting corporate takeovers and powerplays to hang on and defend their postionsof influence and power……and yet agin there maybe many of us who are racing to reach the top of the corporate ladder, all because we see frills and trimmings around this power ,and hope we would have “arrived” once we reach the top of the ladder. How many of these CEO’s, Politicians and Celebrities have a peaceful night’s sleep? The answer might not be very encouraging!
Sexual addictions & Relationships: Another avenue many of us might explore to find “love” or to “ feel loved”. Unfortunately this deception, that we have found the “true love” or ”the soul mate” through these fatal attraction type of encounters, soon fades off and the pain and suffering follows. Many lives, including those of innocent children who get caught in between these fantasies, are ruined in the bargain.
So what is the answer? Where do we look for true love, peace and happiness……..lets explore these thoughts through the posts that follow…
God Bless You!
Posted: February 21st, 2011 under Uncategorized.
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